Hello. I’m JC Ways, sexual health expert and co-founder of SexToyCollective! Our mission is to give people the information they need to improve their sex life, try new things, open their minds, and stay safe in the bedroom. I’m super excited to kick off Sexual Health Awareness Month as a guest blogger for carafem!
If like me, the idea of having children makes you want to run into traffic or you’re just not down to have a baby at the moment, I have some solutions for you. There are many ways you can enjoy both couple’s play and solo masturbation without getting pregnant! After all, sex toys are getting very advanced these days!
The 7 sex toys and pleasure products below are well-regarded in the sex toy industry and can produce INSANE orgasms if used correctly. They also won’t get you preggers!
1. VaWow Vibrating Internal Condom
In case you’ve never heard of it, the VaWow is an internal condom that you put inside your vagina to prevent sperm from getting inside your body (makes sense). However, this condom has a vibrating outer ring that helps to keep it in place and stop it from slipping inside while offering intense sexual stimulation.
Obviously, this vibrating ring feels pretty darn good!
The revolutionary product is all about “Whoopie Over Worry” and has the added bonus of making orgasms more likely during penetrative sex with a partner.
According to the manufacturer, over 70% of those aged 20-40 experienced orgasms on their first use of the VaWow. While we shouldn’t fully trust studies provided by a biased company promoting their own product, this is still a cool invention to make birth control more… fun.
2. Durex Play Pleasure Ring
We’ve looked at internal condoms, but what about regular condoms? The condom kings over at Durex have created their “pleasure ring” pack – a condom with a 20-minute vibrating cock ring that adds those extra sensations to help push orgasms over the edge for both parties!
If you like the Durex Pleasure Ring, you could always move onto using condoms with separately-purchased high-quality cock rings too. Though it’s pricey, the Lelo Tor Vibrating Couples’ Cock Ring will make this safe sex pleasure even MORE intense.
3. NJoy Pure Wand
The NJoy Pure Wand is the holy grail of the sex toy industry. People in the adult business hold up this weird-looking metal dildo as a sex toy gifted down to the human race by divine spirits. It’s as though Moses himself brought it down from Mount Sinai. In fact, it’s featured in The Sex Toy Collective’s logo.
So why is it so bloody good?
This curved stainless steel dildo is designed to stimulate both the G-spot and the prostate, so pretty much any gender can use this toy for pleasure regardless of what they were assigned at birth.
It takes some technique and practice, but if you’re willing to learn how to use the Pure Wand, you will be rewarded with toe-curling, mouth-gaping, screaming orgasms. Yum!
The Njoy Pure Wand is also made from 100% stainless steel, which means that it’s very hygienic and easy to clean/sanitize. You can use basically any lubricant with it, and it comes in a gorgeous satin-lined box.
Need we say more?
4. Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator
The Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator is perhaps one of the most famous sex toys ever invented. Invented by a Japanese company as a back massager in the 1960s, sex therapist Betty Dodson discovered in the 1970s that these back massagers could be used for deep clitoral pleasure.
Soon enough, Betty was hosting classes showing women how to use the Magic Wand for clitoral pleasure. After the Japanese makers caught on to how their product was being used, they rebranded it as a sex toy and the rest is history.
The Hitachi Magic Wand uses deep, rumbly vibrations that penetrate deep into the clitoral complex, leading to incredibly intense orgasms without the need for penetration. There are only 2 vibration settings because honestly, that’s all it needs.
If normal clit vibrators don’t do it for you, try adding a little magic into your life!
5. “Perfect Match” Silicone Rabbit Vibrator
There are loads of great rabbit vibrators out there on the market, many of which can offer you the insane blended orgasm of G-spot stimulation and clitoris stimulation occurring in unison.
However, the Perfect Match rabbit vibrator is affordable, very high quality, and it’s available on Amazon, which is always a plus.
The Perfect Match rabbit vibe has 10 powerful vibration settings, so you can play around to find exactly what you like. It’s also USB rechargeable and 100% waterproof, so you can use it in the shower if that tickles your fancy!
Sweet Vibrations, the company that makes the toy, is a female-led sex toy company that offers a “Forever Warranty” on its products, so if you ever want to return this sex toy for any reason, they’ll replace it free of charge with no questions asked.
Count me in!
6. We-Vibe Chorus Wearable Couples’ Vibrator
We-Vibe is a Canadian sex toy company whose products are focused on couple’s sex and helping partners to improve penetrative sex with adult toys. Hence, they seem like a great company to include on this list!
The Chorus is a wearable couples vibrator that can be worn during penis-in-vagina sex. The toy contours to your body shape, vibrating both the clitoris and the G-spot while your partner’s penis plows you into orgasmic bliss.
If you’ve ever wanted to experience 3 types of sexual pleasure at once, the Chorus is for you.
The WeVibe Chorus can be controlled with a remote control or a smartphone app, where you can program custom vibrations. However, the toy also comes with 10 pre-programmed vibration settings to explore.
To add the cherry on top of this cake, the Chorus is also 100% waterproof and USB rechargeable. What more can we ask for?
7. “Big Shot” Ejaculating Dildo
The feeling of getting ejaculated in is hot. I love the feeling of hot cum shooting deep inside me. It’s erotic and sexy.
However, I don’t want no babies (nor STDs).
But have you heard of ejaculating dildos? These are like regular dildos, except they have a “cum tube” in the middle and a pump that allows them to shoot liquids into your anus/vagina whenever you want.
It’s a great way to simulate the feeling of someone cumming inside you without actually doing it.
Obviously, you can’t go shooting any old liquid into your body, and you probably don’t have a vat of sperm lying around. Most people use body-safe lubricant as their “cum” for these toys, serving the dual purpose of keeping them nice and lubed-up inside as they squirt!
This particular ejaculating dildo is made from body-safe non-toxic silicone and ABS plastic, clocking in at an insertable length of 6 inches. If you want to try an ejaculating dildo, this is the one I’d suggest to try first.
Also, if you’re bored and looking for a project during these times of COVID-19, we also have a video on our YouTube channel that shows you how to make an ejaculating dildo yourself!
So there we have it! I hope you enjoyed The Sex Toy Collective’s guide to 7 amazing sex toys that won’t get you pregnant.
Whether you’re using these sex toys solo or with a partner, these toys make it easy to have naughty fun without worrying about the stork appearing with an unexpected baby bundle.
Stay safe and have fun!